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Feb 17
2008
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Parents should recognize and encouragePosted by Eddy Edwards in parents |
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Parents always want the best for their children, regardless of their background, regardless of their position on the economic, social or class totem pole. Their dream is that their child will become someone prominent who has excelled in their particular career field. The hope that surrounds the birth of a child is universal, as proud parents imaginations run wild with aspirations of greatness.
In earlier years, just about every parent dreamed of their child becoming a doctor, lawyer, accountant, banker, engineer or a politician - well let's rethink that last one as well as the lawyer - but on the serious note, these professions represented respect, class, power and paid well enough to secure one’s future and propel one from the bottom of the economic ladder.
There are so many stories of persons who were pushed into a particular profession by a parent, some trying to live vicariously through their child, or simply just wanting the child to be "someone" or as a ticket out of poverty and in some instances, as a pension plan for the parent. In most cases, these persons are never happy with their profession and either go through life miserable or rebelled against the parent by changing course and pursuing a profession perceived by the parent to be of less prestige. Often times this change in profession creates a rift between child and parent - the child by now is an adult trying to define his/her own life - but the controlling parent cannot face that reality.







